Positivity is a state of mind .. sometimes we have to create a path there and once we find it, it’s a great place to live.
Years ago, when I told people that I was signing up for violin lessons, everyone, bar none, stated that “that is the most difficult musical instrument to learn, especially when you are older” (I was 40ish at the time). Later, at the musical academy, when I was signing the course entry forms, I mentioned this to the administrator. She laughed and noted that as human beings, we are brought up in a state of negativity .. and to combat each item/statement of negativity, one should immediately list 10 positive things, to negate the negativity, as it were.
Walking back to work at the end of my lunch hour, I slowly counted out 10 positive things, starting with: my socks match, my shoes match, and so on. Interestingly enough, I began noticing negativity around me (sorta like, visualize a red car, and soon every 2nd or 3rd car that you see is red .. try this!). It took me awhile to have the positivity kick in and boot out the negativity.
There are such a variety of ways to arrive at the positive state …sometimes it’s like trudging uphill, in the snow, in your father’s pyjama’s (from the commercial!)
I love Ralph Marston’s site … incredible guy, he is very very very positive.
Reading that Woman’s Day article on wabi sabi is another way!
Positivity is creative, empowering and energizing.
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